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Immediately you notice that your word keep sounding irritating to them, then know you're no more relevant in that environment anymore... Learn time of let go.

Don't worry too much about tomorrow, just make sure you're dedicate to a great plan & work towards it, then u are a great person. Note:- A great plan should be futuristic....

The student or schooling stage of life is very important. It is your youthful stage, and a time when you can either shape or destroy your life depending on the habits you adopt. There are some habits a lot of youths have adopted either by association or learning, which aren’t good and can ruin one’s life if not stopped. Here are some of them… LACK OF CONFIDENCE There are a lot of young people who have confidence problem. They do not believe in themselves, and always see themselves as not good enough. The truth about not having confidence is that it somehow always reflects in your dealings, and attracts the same from people around you. If you lack confidence, no one will believe in you, and you’re most likely to be boxed into corners by more confident people. Self-belief is key to achieving and unlocking greatness. GULLIBILITY Every human being should have a mind of their own. It is okay to consider other people’s opinions, but that doesn...

If you are hoping to live a happy and successful life, you must stay away from toxic people. Toxic people are annoying, they rob your happiness and drain your energy. While you should learn how to correlate with different personalities, toxic people are not worth your time and energy. But you must first learn how to identify them so that you can keep them off. What follows is a list of toxic people you should start avoiding: 1. The victim This is the kind of person who makes no effort to deal with their problems. They choose to suffer and seek sympathy from you. While it’s good to support people, these kinds of people will only drain you since they are not willing to try working out their problems. 2. People who do not believe in you Unchain yourself from people who do not believe in you (leoadambiga) These are the worst people to be with and they will always try to bring you down. They will try to show you how your plan will fail and will never support your id...

Bad Relationships are like a bad investment. No matter how much you put into it, you'll never get anything out of it. Find someone that's worth investing in.

Sometimes, the reason they don't care about the misunderstanding in the relationship is because they have another option somewhere. The reason why they don't care if you are at peace in the relationship and they are not doing anything about it is because someone is giving them the peace somewhere. Say no to being an option in a relationship.

Never try to validate a toxic relationship with a label of love. Love doesn't keep you where you don't belong. Trying to force a relationship with someone who makes it known that they don't want you, is selling yourself cheap. You don't need to entertain people who play games and can't keep it real with you. You deserve better than that and better things to give your time to. You don't need a man to validate you. So don't settle for someone who doesn't deserve you, just so that you can say you have a man. Everyone will not embrace your value, so don't waste time trying to prove yourself to the people who just refuse to see it. You should only entertain someone who is willing to love you, invest in you, honour you and brings out the best in you.

If sex is the only thing you contribute into your relationship, you are replaceable. It won't take your partner long to remove the "s" in sex and make you an ex. Even animals can contribute sex. Go into relationship with more tangible things, rather than just sex.

-To kill a man let him know u av NO respect 4 him -To finish a woman make her feel inferior & confirm her inferiority -To kill LOVE don't communicate back -To kill opportunity don't prepare for it's arrival. Now think of it ARE YOU A MURDERER OR NOT?

Life can seem like an uphill battle if we meet it with resistance. There are circumstances beyond our control and expectations that will be shattered. Rather than resisting life, if we meet it with acceptance, compassion, and an open mind, it will begin to flow more freely. Acceptance is the key that sets us free. Here are some truths I've learned on my journey that keep me on the path to happiness: 1. You are doing the best you can. You are only doing the best you can with what you know. Once we accept this, we begin to be much more gentle with ourselves. There's no point in beating ourselves up about past choices and actions, as we only did what we thought was best at that time. We are all a work in progress, and we are all constantly learning. Let go of perfection, and let go of harsh judgment. 2. Everyone's journey is different. Your path will be different from that of your friends or your family. Whether you put your career aside to travel or g...

No matter what you are struggling with in your life, whether it be a difficult relationship, painful diagnosis, or just general disenchantment with where you are at, allowing hope in will brighten your experience of life. This may seem easier said than done, but here are six reasons that you can (and should) feel hope in your life every single day. 1.  You have hope anyway (or you wouldn't still be here). Even the most pessimistic person has a tiny sprout of hope inside of them, or they wouldn't keep going on. The key is recognizing the natural existence of hope, and not resisting it. Rather allowing hope to grow and thrive within you is choosing to pull from the brighter side of the spectrum of human emotion. This causes upward spirals instead of downward spirals of emotion and thought. Over time, this different momentum can shift the entire balance of your life. 2. Hope inspires forward action instead of stagnation. Without hope, you will accept limita...

Here are some actions you can take today to restore your hope even on the most stressful day of your life:   1. Reconnect with nature.   All you have to do here is walk out your front door, step out of your office, or stop driving and step out of your car. To reconnect with nature is to reconnect with wonder. Whether it’s just a few deep breaths as you sit on a patch of grass, simply taking a walk through a local park, or full on spending a night under the stars… reconnecting with the wonder of  being a human being standing on a rock that spirals through space and seeing the earth for the vast support network it is  can’t help but lift your spirits for the better.   Interviewing two astronauts   taught me this: that the earth is a ball of vibrancy whose life and color and beauty stand out powerfully among the backdrop of empty space. The perspective they shared is the ultimate perspective — reminding us how precious, how fleeting...

Spending More Than You Can   Unwealthy  people  pay  for  things  that  they  cannot  afford.   Because  they  are  overwhelmed  with their  spending  habits,  they  allow  money  to  TAKE  happiness  away  from  their  lives.  (Money does  not  make  you  happy  but  it  can  take  happiness  away  from  you.) •  Anna  overspends  on  food,  she  loves  eating  at  great  restaurants  even  if   she  can’t  pay  for  it. •  Peter  overspent  on  his  car,  it  was  a  great  deal  and  he  always  wanted  to  have  it.  •  Sophia  overspent  on  her  house,  she  needed...

  Measuring Happiness with Money   Unwealthy  people  think  that  there  is  a  direct  correlation  between  happiness  and  money,  that the  more  money  you  have,  the  happier  you  are,  and  vice  versa.  •  Anna  wants  more  money,  so  she  can  move  to  a  bigger  house.  •  Peter  wants  more  money,  so  he  can  get  tailor-made  clothing.  •  Sophia  wants  more  money,  so  she  can  go  out  more.  •  John  wants  more  money,  so  he  can  travel  overseas.  •  Carolyn  wants  more  money,  so  she  can  get  her  kids  what  she  didn’...

Doing Things You Dislike DOing  Unwealthy  people  think  that  life  is  hard  and  we  have  no  alternatives  to  doing  things   they  dislike.  •  Anna  hates  doing  dishes,  but  nobody  helps  her.  •  Peter  hates  walking  his  dog,  but  he  refuses  to  build  a  fence.  •  Sophia  hates  doing  excel  sheets,  but  nobody  is  proficient  in  her  company  to  do  it.  •  John  hates  talking  to  his  mum,  but  he  has  to  call  her  every  week.  •  Carolyn  hates  ironing,  but  she  is  not  going  to  take  things  to  the  dryclean...

BEING GREEDY    Unwealthy  people  think  that  in  order  to  be  wealthy  you  need  to  keep  as  much  as  you  can  and get  the  most  of  your  money.  They  love  “great  values”  and  seek  opportunities  to  make  the most  of  whatever  resources  they  have. •  Anna  does  not  pay  full  price  for  her  shoes,  she  buys  them  on  sale. •  Peter  looks  for  bargains  at  garage  sales,  he  does  not  buy  anything  new. •  Sophia  hires  part-time  workers,  so  she  doesn’t  have  to  pay  more  salaries. •  John  flies  on  vacation  with  his...

FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF      Unwealthy people  think  that  life  is  unfair and that being  wealthy  is  not  an  option  for  them.  •  Anna  feels  sorry  because  she  is  a  woman,  men  have  better  options. •  Peter  feels  sorry  because  he  is  black,  whites  don’t  have  to  face  racism. •  Sophia  feels  sorry  because  she  is  fat,  skinny  people  get  better  jobs. •  John  feels  sorry  because  he  is  short,  taller  people  have  a  more  impressive  appeal. •  Carolyn  feels  sorry  because  she  is  too  skinny,  other  people  look  healthier.  •  Mark...

THE KEY HABITS   1. feeling sorry for yourself  2.  being greedy  3.  doing things you dislike doing  4.  measuring happiness with money  5.  spending more than yo u can  6.  preferring instant gratification  7.  complaining  8.  comparing to others  9.  measuring wealth in monetary terms  10.  isolating yourself from your family.

The truth is you don't know what is going to happen tomorrow. Life is a crazy ride, and nothing is guaranteed.- Choice